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        <title>Set &#39;Em Up, Jack</title>   
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        <p>One of my favorite stores/brands is Jack Spade. I loved writing about the newly opened shop when I was shopping editor at Citysearch (is that still online? <a href="http://newyork.citysearch.com/profile/11351536/new_york_ny/jack_spade.html">Yes!</a>). Here&#39;s a great <a href="http://www.jackspade.com/shop/fashionshow07.php">video</a> from JS during Fashion Week. Note Andy Spade taking a bow at the end. So cute! Though is it just me, or is he being played by Tommy Hilfiger? <br />  </p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>I Think I&#39;m Different; Really We&#39;re All The Same</title>   
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        <p>Someday someone will discover the gene sequence for a desire to live in a television apartment--specifically, Mary Tyler Moore&#39;s. (The sequence MTM? I totally have it, it&#39;s located somewhere around MM, the ability to eat one-pound bags of chocolate candy and then three-course meals.) There&#39;s a post-off about TV decor over at <a href="http://www.shelterrific.com/2007/08/09/post-off-whats-your-favorite-tv-decor/">Shelterrific</a>, and this has led me to discover an actual blueprint of MTM&#39;s awesome pad <a href="http://www.mtmshow.com/viewaptmap.html">here</a>. So awesome. All the love for the sunken living room reminds me of my first single-girl residence, a sweet and chic studio at the Kensington House, chronicled once by the New York Times in a <a href="http://query.nytimes.com/gst/fullpage.html?res=950DE6DB1F3AF93AA35752C1A96F948260">studio-centric piece</a>.</p><p>My kitchen sink was so wee that I had to fill my stock pot in the bathtub, and my closets left a lot to be desired, but I had the glorious sunken living space. No doorman named Carlton, however, which reminds me--hey, <em>that</em> was on &quot;<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rhoda">Rhoda</a>&quot;! <br /> </p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>When Did it Get So Hard to be Cool?</title>   
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Travel back with me, friends, to New York in the early &#39;90s. The internet was used for emailing and alt.something newsgroups. (OK, maybe not for you, Al Gore, you were blogging or creating Amazon. Me, I was posting to the Pavement fan list and emailing. That&#39;s all.)</p><p>Record and comic book and zine stores: a handful. In other words, to stay up on non-mainstream media, you could take a walk around lower Manhattan for a few hours, have a couple conversations, flip through your preferred publications and feel pretty secure in your awareness of what was happening via CD, seven inch, etc.</p><div style="text-align: left">These days? Even alt-biggies like Mike Mills are producing shit I don&#39;t know about any more over <a href="http://www.nieves.ch/mike.html">here</a>. No one tells me anything! I browse around and it dawns on me that there&#39;s a whole world of books I don&#39;t know about. Not in the &quot;Books are being written by Hungarian authors in basements&quot; sense,&#160; but in the &quot;There&#39;s an entire world of Japanese craft books that I was OK without but now I am convinced I must have to live a complete life.&quot; (Ask my mom--I am convinced that my entrance to heaven lies in making animals out of pom-poms. What?) My completist tendencies, the ones that were kept in check with vague ignorance, are wholly out of control when the internet is involved.<br /><br />(Also, shouldn&#39;t Kim Gordon like, I don&#39;t know, send me a letter when she puts <a href="http://www.nieves.ch/kimgordon.html">books</a> out? I&#39;m just saying.)<br />
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        <p>Thirty-one came and went without too much trauma--in fact, it was kind of nice. Kelly Sue and I were ladies who lunched, Ryan and I had a quiet night since we&#39;re having our official birthday dinner Monday and my family celebrates tonight.</p><p>But I am suddenly aware, maybe even <em>hyper</em>-aware, of the fact that I am no longer 21. Actually, 21 seems very very near (<em>Remember that time we were walking up Avenue A at 4am and we saw Mark Ibold and I decided we should follow him?</em>) but awfully far away, like those were scenes from someone else&#39;s life. Or a movie. A slow-moving biographical tale that follows our heroine as she stumbles through attempts at romance and career advancement while taking advantage of parties with goodie bags and open bars. It&#39;s not the most interesting movie, but there are some funny parts.</p><p>They&#39;re little reminders: the fact that my stack of CDs at Love Garden is no longer an indicator of release dates and hipsterdom (I&#39;m a good six months behind on everything, not to mention I get really outraged when I browse the used section and find perfectly good things--the entire career output of Polvo--there. Who would sell Polvo? Who?). Or that I find myself starting sentences about how I don&#39;t understand what the kids are into. I like going to bed early. Just someone stop me if I pull out the mom jeans, OK?<br /> </p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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